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We're all at different stages at different times in our lives. Life is about change and sometimes change can be the one thing we DON'T want.

Changing anything can leave us feeling, alone, lonely, alienated, scared, and worst of all, feeling like we're not in control of our lives. As uncomfortable as this is, I can tell you with 100% certainty that these feelings are normal.  

Here's the thing though, we don't like feeling uncomfortable and not in control so the solution, we convince ourselves, is to keep doing what we've always done in spite of the fact that we aren't happy.

Does that sound something like you? Sounds like a vicious circle to me but the reality is that we become comfortable with being uncomfortable. Why? because so many of us are afraid of change. What will my friends and family think? I may not be able to maintain my current lifestyle. I may lose some friends. All these points are valid but consider this. Picture yourself where you are today and picture yourself 5 years from now. Do you want to be then where you are now?

Change doesn't have to be drastic though. You don't always have to turn the apple cart upside down. Sometimes all it takes are some subtle variations to create change.

Don't let fear of change be the reason you won't change what you're not happy with. Your first consultation is always free.   Email or call 250-763-7063 and make your life happen.